Self Love/ Spiritual Love

I believe having a strong connection with the Holy Spirit is a real connection with GOD, I spend four days a week  in the presence of GOD and the Holy Spirit and during my meditation i connect with the Holy Spirit and ask that my prayers are guided and directed by the Holy Spirit. I believe Love is the guided force and we all have a chance to connect and allow that love and power to flow.

Self Love:knowing what you want in a relationship

I believe so many women settle when it comes to relationships, I know because I see it all the time and i myself have in the past been guilty of this unbalanced out of control relationships. I have to say how this started just like so many women lack of love for myself I gave and gave but this powerful love was not returned. But i settled because I believed i would never find a real love of my own,it seem love was out there but it just didn't want me, I believe Love is the most powerful force on this earth I would try to express this to the men I loved but it was never open their hearts to what i was saying or trying to give my heart, my soul,I mean giving all that i am, So when my season for change came I made a decision to give that Love i wanted from a man to myself,now I can look at myself in the mirror and say Racquel Victoria Singleton I LOVE YOU, and it does not sound strange or a lie. My fellow QUEENS if you are in a relationship were you know you're giving and giving and praying that he will do the same one day look in the mirror like i did and say I love you to the one that deserves to hear and feel it you.

Quotes: Passion

Passion is more then an emotion it's a gate way for great creativity and a since of completion and wholeness.
Passion is also a tool to birthing greatness within our selves to be shared with others.
Passion can be timeless if we allow it to flow in everything we do together or a part, So give into passion and give it's place in your heart and life. Create a passionate future. Passion is a dream placed in the center of us all and time is what it takes to birth that passion from the soul and the heart plays a strong role because without heart passion can't be born out of any one.

Passion is a lot of work to develop it's something that has to be craved more then breathe.
Passion is  profound and it opens doors to a majestic future that goes beyond the human mind.
Passion is Love,Hope, and a unity that can't be broken.

Self Love: Relationships between men and women

Self Love: Relationships between men and women: Relationships between men and women can be loving and strong, I also believe that it can be tested by unexpected family problems.I believe i...

Quotes: Sisterhood

Sisterhood is a strong foundation began by like-minded women, who believe in the togetherness of the sister union.
Sisterhood is about empowerment and giving of oneself, for the betterment of her fellow Queen.
Sisterhood gives great power to creative thinking and add spice to the world.
sisterhood has become a lost art and the strength has fallen, So my fellow Queens what can we do to raise Sisterhood back to its greatest and amazing stands.We as women must stand against the powers of the world that have bound us to hopelessness lack of love for ourselves. I believe if we as women can look in the mirror and say I love you and mean it from our hearts we can tell each other that I love you, I stand behind you, I encourage you, I lift you up, I stand by your side, I laugh with you, I cry with you, My fellow Queen my sister of every culture and background. Sisterhood is something worth fighting for holding each other in understanding and getting beyond ourselves giving love to one another.I believe we must say to ourselves I love myself enough to say I love you too another woman as my fellow Queen and sister.

Quotes: Broken Emotions

Emotions can be like a circle of endless thoughts when emotions are out of control or not managed we as women act out of these emotions and very poor decisions are made.
Dealing with broken emotions takes special care and real understanding of how they began.

I think far to many individuals store their emotions inside their sub-consious mind because the pain of past hurt runs to deep,and the confusion is to great for the consious mind to process.

I believe with proper direction and spiritual growth all broken emotions can be restored to wholeness and greater health It starts within our soul our mind,our will and emotions

LOVE

To truly Love someone is to sacrifice self.Love gives only never takes away, Love will always be patient and kind; Love is the foundation of everything worth having,Love births our creative minds to a level the world has never known. True Love heals the brokenness of a lost heart.

Quotes for Queens/Self Love

Self Love begin's with a grand foundation,A knowing on the inside that as a woman and a Queen we all deserve thee very best Love has and nothing less. So let's all remember who's number one and also let's be wise enough to subtract those things and people that are not adding to our destine plan and goals in truly loving self.

Self Love can't truly grow without a strong spirit and the wisdom that comes from a higher source. So begin each day by saying I love me and everything I was created to be.

Relationships between men and women

Relationships between men and women can be loving and strong, I also believe that it can be tested by unexpected family problems.I believe in supporting the one you love but not at the cost of your own happiness.I would never tell anyone to give up on a good relationship but I am saying do not allow yourself to be put on the back burner. I believe good communication is so important and both partner's needs are met,Some parts of relationships can be tested when there are sick children that take lots of time to care for even if that child is a grown up.For example if the child is dealing with mental illness and a sickness that will in time take that child's life. This can put a real stronghold on the relationship. Love can be an amazing thing between men and women and it can also be tested by so many outside things.I also believe that when a love is real it can stand the test of time.Love is a giving of one self for the happiness of another.

Relationships among women

I want to talk about a subject that needs all of our attention it's the relationship among women, I have watched the way some women talk to each other and about each other and I am so sad to see women put another woman down for reasons that are unreal and just plan wrong. For example A young lady had lunch with a male co-worker they laughed and talked for an hour when there their lunch was over as the young lady came back in to the office the other women gathered around and said what's up with you and so and so I saw you having lunch with him you talked for a whole hour When the young lady didn't answer the other women in the office began to make up there story's . Now I have to ask the question Why can't we as women come together and support one another and give love to one another. I believe if we truly LOVED ourselves than we can honestly love one another and not put each other down to mask the self hatred that lives deep inside.I speak of self love so much because I believe its our healing source and with GOD's LOVE mixed in we as women can't loss and our lives can be a healing source for another women who may not see their way to their season of self love.

Promises of Self Love

I vow to know my truest self deeply
I vow to freely and fully express myself never apologizing for or holding back from who I am
I vow to always be completely honest with myself
I vow to love myself for exactly who I am right now
I vow to celebrate myself
I vow to make my happiness a priority
I vow to forgive myself when I'm not perfect
I vow to see my beauty everyday
I vow to find kindness and compassion instead of judgment and comparison for myself
I vow to never settle for less than my heart and soul desire

Relationships

I was listening to a radio station and the two women hosting the show were talking about relationships I only had time to hear a few call in's And one young lady said she has been in a five year relationship with her boy friend and he has already cheated twice the first time she forgave him but now this second time a child is involved ..I have seen this two many times women give so much of them selves and are not receiving the same love from their partners, I must say SELF LOVE has been over looked for far to long. Lady, women, and Fellow QUEENS we must first give LOVE to ourselves and the way to do that is spending time alone and asking your self what do I want from a relationship? What will I deal with and what I will not? Then ask yourselves how do I honestly feel about myself if you can't answer honestly right away then it's time to find out what's up with you on the inside? What's going on inside that has not been dealt with that I may have put under the rug? This will take some time and I believe taking the time is VERY IMPORTANT for your emotional and relationship needs. We must as women take our places as QUEENS to control our QUEENDOM as CEO's of a major company. Then and only then will we see what is not right in each relationship we enter..PEACE WITHIN

Self Love

Love is the most power force in the earth and I believe it is the only gift you can take with you when you die, I am still on my self love walk and with GOD's help I will make it to my blessed end. Self Love has not been an easy way for so many women I've seen it my self in my co-workers and some friends. I believe all changes come in there appointed season and Self Love is possible for every woman. Join me in this grand walk to a more powerful self love by sharing the LOVE you have for yourself to a woman that has not made it to there season of Self Love path,season,journey. Self LOVE is possible it must be a choice You must say I will LOVE every part of me. Self LOVE will bring your future to a passionate beginning and hold you through the waves of life that are unbalanced and were you may be unsure. There will be times you may fall but the great thing is LOVE is always there to pick you up...HOLD ON TO LOVE AND YOURSELF....PEACE WITHIN